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Kv‡RB K_vi gva¨‡g AvZ¥cKvk m¤ú‡K© Dchy³ ¸i“‡Z¡i mv‡_ Av‡jvPbv nIqv `iKvi|

wKfv‡e ïi“ Kie?
Avmj †Mvjgvj wKš‘ GLvbUv‡ZB| K_v wKfv‡e ïi“ Kiv hvq †mUvB †ewki fvM gvby‡mi g~j mgm¨v| A‡bK gRvi K_vB nq‡Zv i‡q‡Q Avcbvi †c‡U GKevi ïi“ n‡q †M‡j Abvqv‡m gy» Ki‡Z cvi‡eb †kªvZv‡K, wKš‘ ïi“Uv Ki‡Z Rv‡bb bv e‡j gyL ey‡R _vK‡Z n‡”Q Avcbv‡K| Avcwb nq‡Zv g‡b Ki‡Qb gvbe PwiÎ ev wek¦eªþvÊ m¤ú‡K© gnv cvwÊZ¨c~Y© wKQy bv ej‡Z cvi‡j mevB †evKv g‡b Ki‡e Avcbv‡K| A_P ûU K‡i eyw×`xß †Kvb K_v Avm‡QI bv gv_vq| ÔGB‡i, Avevi e„wó Avm‡Q †Pv‡c !Õ ej‡j †Zv Avi bZzb wKQy ejv n‡jv bv| DBwjqvg †Rgm ej‡Qb, K_v w`‡q ïi“ Ki‡Z Pvq bv e‡jBÕ| Zuvi mgvavb n‡”Qt g‡bi †eªK †P‡c bv †i‡L hv gy‡L Av‡m e‡j hvb mR, ¯^Ztù~Z© fv‡e|
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wVK| cÖ_g w`‡K Av‡jvPbv R‡g bv IVv ch©š— cÖPzi mvavgvVv K_v ej‡Z n‡e Avcbvi| ÔZvB bvwK?Õ Ôevn&!Õ ÔmwZ¨B?Õ Ôhv e‡j‡Qb!Õ -GB RvZxq gš—e¨ RgRgvU Av‡jvPbvi †Î cÖ¯‘Z Ki‡Z LyeB mvnvh¨ K‡i| gvby‡li mv‡_ Avjvc-Av‡jvPbvi †Î cÖ¯‘Z Ki‡Z LyeB mvnvh¨ K‡i| gvby‡li mv‡_ Avjvc-Av‡jvPbv A‡bKUv ¯^Y©Lwb †Luvovi gZ e¨vcvi| ïi“‡ZB PweŸk K¨v‡iU †mvbv Avkv Ki‡j cv‡eb bv Avcwb| †Mvov‡Z cÖPzi gvwU Avi cv_‡ii mv‡_ mvgvb¨ †mvbv DV‡eÑGUv †g‡b wb‡q GwM‡q †h‡Z n‡e Avcbv‡KÑhZB Mfx‡i hv‡eb ZZB evo‡e LuvwU †mvbvi cwigvY|
Kv‡RB mv`vgvVv K_v ej‡Z K‡bv fq cv‡eb bv| mnR fv‡e ïi“ Ki“b, †`L‡eb AcwiwPZ KviI mv‡_ K_v ej‡ZI Amywe‡a n‡”Q bv Avi| wKQy`~i G‡Mv‡j wb‡RB AevK n‡q hv‡eb wb‡Ri gyL †_‡K †e‡iv‡bv K_vi `xwß †`‡L| R‡g IVvi R‡b¨ wKQyUv mgq e¨q Ki‡ZB n‡e Avcbvi| wUwf‡Z KviI B›UviwfD †`L‡Z wM‡q j Ki‡eb, cÖkœKZ©v cÖ_‡gB Sc& K‡i †Kvb ZË¡v‡jvPbvq bvg‡Qb bv, mv`vgvVv cÖkœ K‡i cÖ_‡g mnR I ¯^Ztù~Z© n‡q IVvi my‡hvM w`‡”Qb wbgwš¿Z e¨w³wU‡K| ÔAvcbvi bvgUv wK, Rbve ? evwo †Kv_vq? wK K‡ib? †Q‡j‡g‡q KqUv? msmvi Avi †K †K Av‡Qb? KZw`b n‡jv XvKvq G‡m‡Qb? wK Kv‡R G‡m‡Qb? KZw`b Av‡Qb?
Gme K_vi †Kvb A_© nq ? Ñ wR‡Ám Ki‡Z cv‡ib Avcwb| Gme Avm‡jB G‡Kev‡i ev‡R cÖkœ, eyw×i wQ‡U‡duvUvI †bB †Kv_vI| wKš‘ K_vevZ©v ïi“ Ki‡Z n‡j Gme Acwinvh©| KviI gyL †_‡K gRvi wKQy KZv †ei Ki‡Z n‡j Zv‡K Mig K‡i wb‡Z n‡e Av‡M| †Kej cÖkœB bq, DËi ï‡b cÖkœKZ©v †hme gš—e¨ Ki‡Qb, j Ki“b| evwo w`bvRcyi ï‡b e‡j‡Qb, ÔI evev, eû`yi|Õ AvU †Q‡j‡g‡q ï‡b ej‡Qb, ÔkveŸvkÕ| gv-evev †eu‡P Av‡Qb ï‡b e‡j‡Qb,Ô‡ek, fvj|Õ ÑGme K_viI †Kvb A_© nq bv|
wKš‘ GB †h cÖkœKZ©v, wkw²Z GKRb G•cvU©| fvj †eZb ev cvwikªwgK w`‡q wbhy³ Kiv n‡q‡Q Gu‡K GB Kv‡Ri R‡b¨| Bwb Rv‡bb, Gme mv`vgvVv cÖkœ I gš—e¨ w`‡q Av‡jvPbvUv‡K GKUz ZvwZ‡q bv wb‡j gRvi ev bZzb wKQy †U‡b †ei Kiv hvq bv A‡b¨i g‡a¨ †_‡K| Guiv hw` mv`vgvVv cÖkœ I gš—e¨‡K wbe©yw×Zv g‡b bv K‡ib, GuivI hw` ïi“‡ZB RgRgvU Avjv‡ci m~ÎcvZ Ki‡Z bv cv‡ib - Avwg-Avcwb cvie wK K‡i?
wK eje?
wK eje, GB †f‡e A‡bK mgq Pzc K‡i _vwK Avgiv| Av‡jvPbv †Zv Avi GK Zidv nq bv| AcwiwPZ GK fMÖ‡jvK, †K ev wK wKQyB Rvwb bv, wK cÖkœ Ki‡Z wK wR‡Ám K‡i eme, nq‡Zv weeªZB Kiv n‡e Zv‡KÑGB me mvZ-cuvP fvwe| Avm‡j mgvavbUv LyeB mnR| Zv‡K Zvi wb‡Ri m¤ú‡K© cÖkœ Ki“b| Avcwb wbwð&Z _vK‡Z cv‡ib, GB GKB wel‡q †h‡Kvb gvbyl `vi“Y AvMÖnx, GB GKwU wel‡q cÖPzi Ávb iv‡L mevB|
wb‡Ri e¨vcv‡i mevB AvMÖnx| wb‡Ri KvR, wb‡Ri cwievi, wb‡Ri †`k, wb‡Ri gZev` gvby‡li Kv‡Q me‡P‡q wcÖq| Avcwb KvD‡K Zvi wel‡q cÖkœ Ki‡j kZ`‡ji gZ cvcwo †gj‡e †m, PvB wK Avcbvi m¤ú‡K©I `yÕGKUv K_v Rvbevi AvMÖn m„wó n‡e Zvi g‡a¨| †m hw` cÖkœ K‡i, Avcbvi m¤ú‡K© wKPz Rvb‡Z Pvq, Aí K_vq DËi w`b, DËi Gwo‡q hvIqv cQ›` K‡i bv gvbyl| wKš‘ Rvb‡Z Pvq, Aí K_vq DËi w`b, DËi Gwo‡q hvIqv cQ›` K‡i bv gvbyl| wKš‘ †Lqvj ivL‡eb, Av‡jvPbvUv hZ †ewkY wb‡Ri w`‡K †U‡b ivL‡eb ZZB fvUv co‡e A‡b¨i AvMÖ‡n| PU K‡i wd‡i †h‡Z n‡e Avcbvi ZviB cÖm‡½| AvcwbI gvbyl, AvcbviI wb‡iR m¤ú‡K© MoMo K‡i cÖPzi K_v ej‡Z gb PvB‡e, wKš‘ GB RvqMvq wb‡R‡K GKUz mvg‡j ivL‡Z n‡e Avcbvi|
ZvB e‡j †mB Zi“Y Kwei gZ cy‡iv GKwU NÈv wb‡Ri KweZv m¤ú‡K© eKeK K‡i †k‡l ej‡eb bv, Ôn‡q‡Q, h‡_ó n‡q‡Q Avgvi wb‡Ri K_v| Gevi Avcbvi K_v †kvbv hvK| ejyb †`wL, Avgvi KweZv m¤ú‡K© Avcbvi wK aviYv?Õ
nvwmLywk
K_vq evZ©vq hnUv m¤¢e nvwm Lywk fve _vKv `iKvi| †Mvgov gy‡Lv f~Z †KD cQ›` K‡i bv| me©bv‡ki `~Z‡K gvby‡li AviI AcQ›`| `ytmsev` ïb‡Z fvj jv‡M bv KviI|
ej‡Z w`b
K_vi g‡a¨ KvD‡K evav †`‡eb bv, wKš‘ wb‡Ri m¤§wZ ev mg_©b Rvbv‡Z wØav Ki‡eb bv †gv‡UI| †KD hw` e‡j: Avwg MÖv‡gi †Q‡j, mv‡_ mv‡_B gv_v SuvwK‡q ejybt AvwgI (hwZ ZvB nb) hw` e‡jt iv‡Z i“wU LvB Avwg, ejybt AvwgI (hw` ZvB nq) Gi d‡j †kªvZv I e³vi g‡a¨ Lye `ª“Z M‡o I‡V mnR m¤úK©| Ab¨fv‡e Zv‡K Rvbv‡”Qbt AvcwbI ZviB gZ, Avwcb Zvi gZvgZ mg_©b K‡ib, †m hv cQ›` K‡i AvcwbI ZviB gZ, Avcwb Zvi gZvgZ mg_©b K‡ib, †m hv cQ›` K‡i Avcwb I ZvB cQ›` K‡ib| wb‡Ri mv‡_ hv‡`i wgj i‡q‡Q Avgiv Zv‡`i cQ›` Kwi, Awgj ev Miwgj AcQ›` Kwi Avgiv mevB| †h Avgv‡`i gZ bq, Zv‡K Avgiv AvZ¥‡cÖ‡gi cÖwZ cÖZ¨ ûgwK e‡j g‡b Kwi| hvi mv‡_ wgj Lyu‡R cvB, Zv‡K Avcb g‡b nq, †m Avgv‡`i AvZ¥‡cÖ‡gi gvÎv evwo‡q †Zv‡j|
wØgZ
hw` †Kvb e¨vcv‡i wØgZ †cvlY K‡ib, Ges †mUv Zv‡K Rvbv‡bv Acwinvh© nq, Av‡M †QvULvU K‡qKwU wel‡q wgj Lyu‡R †bqv fvj| hZ †QvUB †nvK, K‡qKUv wel‡q hw` GKgZ n‡Z cv‡ib, Zvn‡j `yÕRb `yB gZ wb‡qI ¯^vfvweK m¤úK© eRvq ivL‡Z cvi‡eb mn‡RB|

e¨w³MZ mgm¨v
Av‡jvPbvi g‡a¨ e¨w³MZ mgm¨vi D‡j­L hZUv m¤¢e Gwo‡q hvIqvB fvj| Gme ïb‡Z KviI fvj jv‡M bv| Gme hw` KLbI Lye †ewk Kó †`q, gvbyl‡K ejvi †P‡q Wv‡qix‡Z wj‡L †djv A‡bK fvj| g‡bi hZ †vf, nZvkv, weiw³ †S‡o wjLyb Wv‡qix‡Z, fvlvUv‡KI f‡`ªvwPZ Kievi `iKvi †bB, cÖwZc‡K Mvwj w`‡Z n‡”Q Ki‡j g‡bi Avb‡›` w`b hZ Lywk| hv g‡b Av‡m wj‡L †djyb| cÖ‡qvRb n‡j GKvwaKvi| cÖKv‡ki c_ †c‡q nvjKv n‡q hv‡e gbUv, gvbyl‡K G wb‡q Avi R¡vjvZb Kievi B‡”QB _vK‡e bv|
g¯‹iv
me‡k‡l GKUv K_v bv ej‡j Av‡jvPbv m¤ú~Y© n‡e bv| K_vq evZ©vq KvD‡K wb‡q g¯‹iv, e‡µvw³ Kiv, BZ¨vw` †_‡K weiZ ivL‡Z n‡e Avcbvi wb‡R‡K| Avgiv euvKv K_v ev g¯‹ivi gva¨‡g wb‡R‡K Lye PvjvKPzZi e‡j cÖgvY Kievi †Póv Kwi| Avkv Kwi, Avgv‡`i iwmKZv ev eyw×gËv gy» Ki‡e gvbyl‡K, hv‡K nvm¨v¯ú` Kiv n‡”Q †m-I iwmKZvUv eyS‡e| Avm‡j N‡U wKš‘ D‡ëvUv| Avcbvi NwbôZg eÜzI, mvgbv-mvgwb nvwmi gZ fw½ Ki‡jI, g‡b g‡b †PvU cv‡e hw` Zv‡K wb‡q Zvgvkv K‡ib| KviY Gm‡ei wcQ‡b AvcvZ`„wó‡Z gRv gRv GKUv fve _vK‡jI D‡Ïk¨ Aci‡K †nq Kiv| GUv Kv‡ivB fvj jvM‡Z cv‡i bv| AvZ¥‡cÖ‡gi GjvKvq nvgjv, ev An‡gi cÖwZ ûgwK gvby‡li me‡P‡q †ewk AcQ›`|
Avkv Kwi GB me Z_¨ Avcbv‡K evK-cUzZ¡ AR©b Ki‡Z mvnvh¨ Ki‡e| AvkvKwi A‡bK †ewk MÖnY‡hvM¨ K‡i Zzj‡Z cvi‡eb Avcwb wb‡R‡K gvby‡li Kv‡Q|

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